The footage to gather

  1. The preparations
  2. A favourite interaction
  3. The moment after the candles

Give each moment a little breathing room. Get close enough to show the detail, and keep the original clips handy.

Plan a short keepsake

Opening

Open on the little moment you would miss if it were lost.

Middle

Keep the original voices and order only the clips needed to make that moment understandable.

Ending

Leave room for the quiet reaction after the main event.

Review it for birthdays

Ask before posting identifiable guests and keep private wishes out of public edits.

Ask yourself: Does it feel like the people you remember, rather than a highlight reel?

Watch it as if you were seeing it for the first time. If something is unclear, try a different cut or add the missing shot.